Taken from iono... someone's xanga
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People seem to be forever looking for love. Consciously or unconsciously, we crave for someone who can be our partner in every way. Someone who will always be there with us. But where there is love, there is pain. When can we truly say that we love somebody? How will we know if its a true emotion or if we just love the idea of being in love? Or if we just dont want to be alone? Moreover , how can we let go of someone we love? Love is indeed a double edged sword;one that must be wielded with great care and respect.
A true love can bear the longitude of waiting even if it takes forever. When confused about love, follow your heart it may not always be right, but you will have the memories to make you smile. If your head tells you one thing and your heart tells another thing, before you decide, you should first think whether you have a better head or heart. Its okay to kiss a fool or let a fool kiss you but never let a kiss fool you. Dont find love, let it find you, thats why its called falling in love becoz you dont force yourself to fall, you just fall. Never be ashamed to show love when you feel it because one day you might realize that love is already afraid to show itself to you.
To love someone is to have courage to walk away and let go the other one who wishes to be free, no matter how much it hurts. Never say, "I LOVE YOU" when you dont care. Never talk about feelings if they arent there. Never touch a heart if you mean to break it. Never look in the eyes if all you have is a lie, and never say hello if you mean goodbye. Love is like a butterfly the more you chase it the more it eludes you, but if you just let it fly, it would come to you when the least you expect. On the course of love people must teach their hearts to be brave enough to let go when they realized when things are not meant to be after all. Most relationships are like traffic signs, 1 way, 2 way , do not enter, slippery when wet, no u turn, no left turm, but what i like most is to give way. I mean whats the use of forcing yourself to someone, or why believe something not likely to prosper. I think it will just be a waste of time.
Words and hearts should be handled with care, for words when spoken and hearts when broken are the hardest things to repair. The simplest pick-up doesnt have so many words; all i need is "I" for me to say, "LOVE" for me to share it and "YOU" for me to give it. Dont share your tears to someone who hurt you. Dont long for the person if they left. Dont feel sorry if you fail when you tried your best. Someone out there is more deserving for your time and love.
If I tell you "I LOVE YOU" you shouldnt wonder why, or how, or since when or how long because I wouldnt have a single answer except to tell you that again. In the game of love, it doesnt matter who wins or loses, what is important is that you know when to hold on and when to let go. Its presence of the soul that makes you "live". *If your heart gets broken by the time you truly love, dont let go of the love for the person but let go of the person.* You'll never know love might be sweeter the second time around.
Its hard to find true love because people are too caught up looking for the perfect person they dont realize that love is not finding the perfect person but being the perfect person for someone else. Love knows no reason, love knows no lies, love defers all reason, love has no eyes, but love is blind, they can see but they dont mind. We are sometimes afraid to say "I LOVE YOU" instead we say "I MISS YOU" but often misunderstood leaving the one we love on which you dont realize he is also feeling the same feelings like you do. Love not because the person is the only one but because the person is the one you are willing to give up everything because, its worth fighting for. Its hard to pretend to have someone that you dont but its harder to pretend that you dont love someone that you do. Once you had love, you will always love. For whats on your mind may escape, but whats on your heart will always remain forever.
Love is not how to forget but rather how to forgive. It is not how you listen but how you understand. Not by what you say, but by what you do and not by what you receive but what you give. True love wants a person to be happy even if you wont be the one the person will share his/her happiness with. If you love someone, dont hold back, never hide your feelings, never economize your love and most of all never take the person for granted, because you will never value what you have till its gone. Sometimes we think that loving someone can be such a risky thing. How else would you win if you dont take chances? You dont lose by giving, you lose by holding back. Never try to impress someone to make him/her fall in love with you coz when you do, you will have to keep the standard for the rest of your life. Never rush in love, for it never runs out. Let love be the one to look for you, so that when you start falling, you will always know that feeling is sure.
YES! it drives you crazy, it makes you feel mad, jealous and sad, it even causes sleepless nights and it even breaks your heart. Well, come to think of it, is it healthy to fall in love. True love is not when the heart beats faster or fastest, but when it beats no more and yet the love is still there. If you have the reason why you love a person, then you are usin your mind. But if you love a person with no reason at all, then you are usin your heart. Love is not a word to say when we feel guilty, not a right word to say when we like a person, but love really matters when we share our thoughts, our minds, and our hearts. How do I say goodbye to someone i never told? Why do i fear to fall for someone who was never really mine? Why do i miss someone i never been with? Why do i love someone whose love was never truly mine?
I dont know.
